# Keep in touch before people go quiet

Yes. Tell Marrow when to check in with someone and it sets a follow up for that day. The daily brief also lists the people going quiet, and you can ask who is going quiet at any time.

## Name the day for each check in

Say who and when, such as check in with Benedikt next Wednesday, and Marrow sets the follow up.

The date is worked out and shown in the reply.
Done closes it, and Snooze moves the date.
Ask for a draft, marked not sent.

## The brief names who is going quiet

The daily brief lists people going quiet beside what is due, and the Monday weekly brief does too.

Overdue and due follow ups sit beside them.
It arrives at the time you choose.
By notification, on Telegram or both.

## Ask who to follow up this week

The answer comes from your own record, grouped by overdue, due today and this week.

## Ask who is going quiet any time

Ask who is going quiet in the chat whenever you like; Marrow answers from your own record.

A person’s screen shows days since your last contact.
A prep adds a heads up on a stale relationship.

## You send; Marrow reminds and drafts

Marrow does not message anyone for you, and you set each check in yourself. Marrow is in Beta.

How often to reach out: the cadence guide.
Drafts stay drafts until you send them.

## Related

- [Follow ups and reminders](/features/follow-ups-and-reminders)
- [Briefings](/features/briefings)
- [People](/features/people)
- [Keep in touch cadence](/guides/keep-in-touch-cadence)
- [Reconnecting after a long silence](/guides/reconnecting-after-a-long-silence)

Last updated 11 October 2026. Canonical: https://usemarrow.com/features/keep-in-touch-reminders